How to Stop Child Abuse in a Public Place

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Posted Sun, 04/19/2009 - 18:10 by Stkittprincess
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It can be uncomfortable to watch a child mistreated by an adult who's out of control. Fortunately, there are things you can do to help.

Start:

Start a conversation with the adult to direct attention away from the child. Say something such as:

"Children can wear you out, can't they? Is there anything I can do to help?"

"She seems to be trying your patience."

"My child has gotten upset like that too."

"He has beautiful (eyes)." - this can encourage a more positive mood for the parent

Divert:

Talk to the child to divert the child's attention if misbehaving.

Look:

Look for the first opportunity to praise the parent and child.

Offer:

Offer assistance if the child is in danger. For example, if the child is left unattended in a grocery cart, stand by the child until the parent returns.

Avoid:

Avoid negative remarks or looks. These reactions are likely to increase the parent's anger and make matters worse.

Comments

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Good Blog

by Admin - 04/19/2009 - 18:37

I am glad that you wrote this. I'm sure that it will help inform people of the best way to handle a situation like this :)

Your Bro :)

Sam of Green Grove :)
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Thanks

by Stkittprincess - 04/21/2009 - 17:03

Hey Sam,
I hope more people read this article as children need advocates.
Kitt

Stkittprincess - Co-Administrator of GreenGroveBlog
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